Most people who end up searching for something like this aren’t lacking insight. They’ve reflected. They’ve connected the dots. They understand where certain reactions come from. And yet, when specific moments happen, their body reacts the same way it always has. They might know they’re safe — and still feel their chest tighten. They might understand the pattern — and still go blank when it matters. That creates a frustrating question: “If I already understand this… why doesn’t it help when it actually matters?” To answer that, we need to separate three things that are often collapsed into one — but function very differently: insight behavior change nervous system healing Insight can improve understanding and even behavior, but nervous system healing requires safety, capacity, and regulation — not just awareness. That distinction is where most confusion lives. The video below explores what this looks like in real time. This article s...